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What does "having sex"
include?
“Having sex” can mean many things. It can be between
a man and woman, two men, or two women. It does not just mean when
a man’s penis enters a woman’s vagina, also known as,
vaginal sex.
Sex can also be oral. Oral sex means one person placing his or her
mouth on another person’s genitals (penis, vagina, or anus).
Finally, sex can be anal. Anal sex is usually when a man’s
penis is placed inside someone else’s anus.
What are the risks
for STI’s and how do I protect myself?
There are many reasons that people don’t
protect themselves:
Sometimes there is a lack of knowledge about
risks
Sometimes it can feel embarrassing to ask questions
It can feel embarrassing to buy condoms
Getting caught up in the moment
Peer pressure
Influence of alcohol and drugs
The fact is, you are at risk any time you share
bodily fluids with another person. This means vaginal, oral, or
anal sex. Sometimes, although rare, sexually transmitted infections
such as HIV and herpes can be passed through open-mouth kissing.
Talking and planning can help ensure the safety and comfort of both
you and your partner. If you choose to have sex, the best protection
is latex condoms. When used properly, latex condoms give good protection
against the bodily fluids of your sexual partner. Other forms of
birth control such as “the pill” only protect from pregnancy. Neither
condoms or birth control pills are 100% effective against pregnancy
or STI’s only abstinence is.
How do I know if I have
an STI?
There is no easy answer to establishing the symptoms of an STI.
Many of the possible symptoms may not be related to sexual activity
at all. As well, many STI have no symptoms.
If you are concerned that you may have been
exposed to an STI it is important to see your doctor or go to a
local health clinic.
Some possible symptoms that women may
experience are:
Sores, bumps, or blisters near your genitals or mouth
Burning or pain when you urinate
Itching or unusual discharge from your vagina or anus
Pain in your lower abdomen
Bleeding from your vagina between periods
Some possible symptoms that men may experience
are:
Sores, bumps, or blisters near your genitals, anus or mouth
Burning pain when you urinate
Drip or discharge from your penis
Itching, pain, or discharge from your anus
What are some of the
common STI’s? HIV/AIDS:
Human Immunodeficiency Virus or HIV, is a virus that attacks the immune
system resulting in AIDS. There is currently no cure for HIV/ AIDS
infection. Chlamydia: A
bacterial infection that left untreated, can scar the fallopian tubes
and affect a woman’s fertility. Crabs:
Crabs are parasites or bugs that live on the pubic hair in the genital
area. Gonorrhea: Also known
as “the clap”, gonorrhea is a treatable bacterial infection
of the penis, vagina, throat, or anus that causes pain, or burning
as well as, a puss-like discharge.
Hepatitis A, B, C, D: These viruses affect the liver, and can
lead to liver failure. Herpes:
Genital herpes results from viral infection transmitted through contact
with the moist mucous lining of the genitals. Once in the body it
remains, and there is no cure. Human
Papilloma Virus (HPV): This is the most commonly transmitted
STI. It affects the skin in the genital area and cervix and sometimes
causes wart-like growths. HPV is spread through skin-to-skin contact.
Pelvic Inflammatory Disease:
Infection of the female reproductive organs that can be caused by
a variety of bacteria.
Scabies: Scabies is a parasite on
the skin. It can be passed through skin-to-skin contact as well as
clothing and bedding. Syphillis:
Syphillis is caused by a bacteria that bores into the mucous membrane
of the mouth and genitals. It can be highly contagious and transmitted
through casual contact. It is chronic but treatable.
The above information provides a basic overview
of some of the more common STIs. More specific information can be
acquired through a physician, hospital, or medical clinic.
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