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If your period is late and you think you might
be pregnant, you can get a standard, over the counter urine pregnancy
test from any drug store.
Menstrual periods can be delayed or missed
altogether for a variety of physical and emotional reasons. A standard
pregnancy test can be done if your period is one week late. A test
done too early won't be accurate.
If the urine pregnancy test shows that you might
be pregnant, you should see a doctor to confirm the results.
There are lots of resources available to you
to help you make decisions if you are pregnant.
In the meantime, we have also included some
information for you here that was compiled by Planned Parenthood
BC:
Am
I pregnant?
If you think you might be pregnant, or your
urine test has tested positive for pregnancy, see a doctor for a
pelvic exam to confirm the pregnancy and determine how far along
you are.
You can ask for a pregnancy test at any walk
in clinic or at Planned
Parenthood.
Don't take any drugs or medications (except
birth control pills or required medications) after 7 p.m. the night
before your test. Some medications can affect the results of the
test. Tell the doctor if you're taking any.
On the morning of your test, consider bringing
with you the first urine you pass; it's most concentrated then.
Try not to drink much the night before, so that it can be as concentrated
as possible.
If you find out you
are not pregnant, you may choose to discuss some birth control
options with your doctor. You can also find some useful info at
www.planetahead.ca.
Making Decisions
Deciding what to do about a problem pregnancy
is an important and difficult task.
You might want to spend some time thinking about
your options or discussing them with your partner, parent, or a
trusted friend. Some people find that writing things down helps
them clarify their thoughts and feelings; you may want to try that
as well.
No choice is without obstacles or problems.
If, after answering the questions below and others that might arise,
you don't have a clear sense of which decision is right for you,
you might want to consult a counsellor, clergyperson, parent, or
doctor to help you work things through.
Thinking about…
Continuing your pregnancy
and keeping your child
Here are a few questions to ask yourself that
might help you clarify what the right decision might be for you.
- How would this decision affect me, my family, my partner, the
child? What role would my partner play? Could I manage without
his help? Would my family help?
- Where could I go for pre-natal and delivery care? Could I support
a child myself? Where would I live during and after my pregnancy?
Are there others in my life willing to help me? Have I talked
with them about it?
- How would having a child affect my school and job plans?
- Am I healthy? Would I have a healthy child?
- Am I emotionally strong enough to take on the responsibility
of parenting?
- How will I feel about this decision in one year? Five years?
What does my religion tell me? What are my own beliefs and values?
- If I choose this option, will I be doing it for myself or someone
else?
- If I were to choose the ideal situation for becoming a parent,
what would it be?
- What are the pros and cons of this decision?
Giving up your child
for adoption
- How would this decision affect me, my family, my partner, the
child? What role would my family or partner play? Have I talked
with them about it? Are there others in my life willing to help?
- Where would I go for pre-natal and delivery care? Where would
I live during my pregnancy? How would a pregnancy affect my school
or job plans?
- How would I feel about this decision in one year? Five years?
- Do I know my legal rights? The legal rights of adoptive parents
and children? Where can I find out?
- If I choose this option will I be doing it for myself or someone
else?
Discontinuing
your pregnancy and having an abortion
- How would this decision affect me, my family, my partner, the
child? What role would my partner play? Could I manage without
his help? Would my family help?
- Where would I go for an abortion? What does my religion say?
What are my own beliefs and values?
- How will I feel in two months? One year? Five years?
- If I chose this option, would I be doing it for myself or someone
else?
- What are the pros and cons of this decision?
Making difficult decisions about a pregnancy
is stressful and emotionally draining. You might want to check out
our tips for coping with stress.
And remember, we’re here 2 listen if you need
us. Wanna
talk?
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